frustrations

My biggest frustration in ministry is seeing people's lack of pursuit in getting involved. I feel like if people were more willing to serve and to step out and make things happen, then the church would be working as it should be. Yet, people come to church and expect to be fed, and that is all they come to church for. No one wants to carry the burden of another. Have you ever tried to start a prayer group? These are the hardest groups to start. Because people wants things now and they want it to be entertaining. They want it to feed them, or they won't show up to the event. They want and want and want, and yet never give unless its easy. Why is the church so selfish seemingly ALL THE TIME? Gah, it seems like there are leaders but no one willing to follow.